Deb/ Andrea Stills What an awesome way to remember your son :)
to a good friend / Blackie (good mate )
Dear Toby...
Maine itz been so long since we seen you, yet it feelz like yesturday you were around hoping we wudnt arrive at your door ahahah, you were such a good mate to me and all ov us, life without you on thre coast doesnt seem to be the same no more... back in the dayz it was always lets get onit at tobys... LANGTON ROAD yayirr... but now its really gay and boring... i was so gutted not to be at your funeral... but i knew dat weaever i was you would give me a dong for it lol...times were mean azz with you, and you were alwayz thea wen i needed you, even in my drunken times lol, seein your picz brings a tear, but in mah heart i know your still there, weather up in heaven or in our dreamz... your a choice friend, drinkin buddy, and i count you as a bro g... love alwayz from >>BlACKIE G<< o.O.o||x.X.x
a poem i read yesterday / Grace (Sister)
Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room.
Whatever we were to eachother, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in that easy way which you always used to.
Laugh as we always laughed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household name that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that is ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was, there is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, ...
just around the corner. All is well.
Nothing is past, nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before,
only better, infinitely happier and forever, we will be together.
RIP Toby / Kim Harvey Will look for you once I cross over, seems we have a lot in common! Nice choice of song too. Many condolensces to your friends and family. You look like a lovely soul who will be greatly missed. xox
Happy Birthday, we love you so very much / Mum Missing You On Your Birthday
Birthdays are a time for celebration not a time for tears - But what happens when the birthdays No longer mark the years? A birthday marks the moment A spirit enters earthly life - to share its special love and joy, and learn from earthly strife. The sadness we now feel on such a joyous day is longing for our loved one's touch, it's natural to feel this way. For even though the birthdays no longer mark a spirit's stay, love continues on forever to touch us everyday. I hug my precious memories close to my heart, and honour my beloved spirit child who chose me from the start
Merry Christmas my darling son / Missing You (Mum)
Merry Xmas son...we are all missing you this, our second, xmas without you. You would have been so happy to watch Jake this morning........he was so excited with all his gifts particularly his quad. He is so like you son, it takes my breath away at times. He knows how special he is, and he is a good little boy, you would be so proud of him as we will ensure he is proud of you. Love you to the moon and back, forever and a day xxxoooxxx
help me Aaron / Grace (sister) I don't know how to deal with this. the grief, it's unbearable. i want to get on with life, and im trying but nothing is the same. just thinking how different it would be if u were here, i wouldn't have felt the need 2 drown my sorrows by getting drunk. i wouldn't have got in2 any of this shit that im in i wish u were here to keep me on track push me into reality but i gota do it myself Dave said i have to keep being strong im not strong i break down in public sometimes and it's so embaressing i feel like a failure i need u bro xoxo
Mum misses you / One year tonight my beautiful boy Aaron, it's been a year since we learnt that you were gone, never the chance to say goodbye. I never got the chance to hold you and tell you I love you. Memories still bring me pain and often tears, the thought of your final moments torment me. It's just so hard knowing you are gone from us forever, and I'm finding it impossible to let you go. We got together last night with your friends to remember you and try to celebrate your life, and just to pay tribute to you in the way we thought you would like. Brian, Courtney, Johnny, Troy and Joe were here with your Dad and I, Jamie and David as well as Jake. Others came too: Caine, Wazza and Simon; for a little while. There are so many people missing you son, some who just need to deal with it in their own way. I will never get over losing you and I hope you have found some peace and serenity, you needed it so bad. RIP, until we meet again, my heart will never be whole.
So Very Sorry for Your Loss / Melissa Eiler (Visitor~Daughter of Irwin & Renee Eiler )
From Mum / Happy birthday Happy birthday Aaron...it's so hard without you here and this week has been hell waiting for your birthday and knowing I can't see you, can't txt you, knowing I can't ever get you a gift again. We are going to the beach to release some ballooons for you and have a drink....all your friends will be with me and Grace as well as Dad, Jamie and David. We miss you so much and love you forever....from Mum
yet another poem / Grace I love you as much as i miss u and u wouldnt believe how much i miss u Its so hard - I love u People say "oh, u can just love him in a different way" but i still love u the same Its not the same way i miss you though ive never missed someone this way this much day by day ts wrong its strange its never gonna b the same
a poem from me / Grace Tears tears follow her everywhere anytime anyplace the tears dont seem to care They flow out at night When she isnt in sight She wishes the pain would just go away Leave her alone Then the tears wouldnt matter anymore They wouldnt b there She'd have her brother back And thats what she needs to b happy again Without this her happiness will never come She's always going to b in the darkness drowned by tears till the end of her time here
Here's a poem one of my friends wrote / Grace ok i changed this poem a bit.....
Y did U hav 2 go crash ur car? U couldve walked home, it wasnt that far. We know that there were many factors but it was really the decision U made that was the matter. We all miss U so much We want U back again U are still a brother a mate a son I know any of us would giv up anything just to give U one more hug U were always welcome at home didnt matter if U were drunk, even stoned all that remains is memories now, I try 2 b happy but cant remember how eternaly scared We still believe in U Ur always gna b a Hero 2 ppl thatn kno U Ur memory will always stay true, 2 us U werent just a guy, U were a son, a brother, a mate and a lover, We all still love U We will love U forever till the end X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X00X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X0X
thinking of u at christmas / Rhiannan (friend) Im always thinking of you, your mum gracey and hopfully dave r coming to stay after christmas i wish you and zoe were also going to be here. i wonder what fun we would have had catchn up and remembering the goood ol days?! it will be like ol times with mum an deb havn a laugh an a few drinks but what am i going to do with out my partner in crime? haha. i found a photo of u 2day i took the last time we saw each other you were camra shy and wouldnt get in the shot wiv me but i snapd ya ne way. i just wantd to say merry christmas to you and send my love to you deb gracey dave jamie and john thinking of you all.
Love Rhiannan
Mum / Merry Christmas son I'm not looking forward to Xmas without you.........you know we were never big on Xmas, but still, it won't be the same. Can't help thinking that this year might have been different with Zoe. I miss you so bad it hurts, and I hope you'll be hanging around with us.......show me a sign and I'll find it a bit easier. Here's a Christmas tree for you love forever, stay with me
Condolances/ Sophie Legg (none) Hello,
You don't know me and I don't know you. My name is Sophie and I am married to another Aaron Legg, (middle name James). I was just mucking around and doing a google on family members and found this quite by accident. I have tears in my eyes and I offer sincere condolances. My Aaron is 30 and we have a two year old son. I can sympathise now as a mother and a wife; the idea of losing either is unbareable and it must be agony. I just wanted to let you know that we have heard Aaron's story and we wish you all the very best. Keep up the journalling, it will help.
Best wishes,
Sophie
Rhiannan Tucker (old friend) / to my friend I think about u every morning and every night but to be truthful i cant get my head around the fact that i wont get to catch up with you again. That means i cant hava laugh with you over the things we got up 2 as kids and i cant laugh at u 4 playn with my barbies hahaha and you liked it :) Il never understand y we hadnt had a catch up in so long i guess we both knew each other was there and took it 4 granted. I will regret that 4 the rest of my life. But i wil treasure the memories i have of the many fun times we had well not that i call being trapped in ur sleeping bag with 1 of ur rotten farts fun hehe. Your wonderful mum has left me 2 take good care of Peter and even tho we r both 2 big 4 soft toys him and lambie have a good spot together on my bed. I will mis u for the rest of my life but I will meet u again becoz we will be mates for longer than this life time. love you xoxoxoxoxox
Grace/ Hey Aaron
Thought i might follow on from Mum and write to you as wellI'm thinking about today, what it would be like if you were still here.....
Well to start off with you would've been around last night, helping me and Mum with the fireworks, probably waving sparklers in my face!
This morning you would've been sitting outside and you would've laughed at me trying to run away from the wasp that was chasing me Then you would've teased me about my (newly aquired) six pack of abs flabs.....
And when I was in the kitchen, thinking of learning more about cars and Mum suggested me doing a mechanics course (which i AM seriously thinking of doing now) you would've thought i was going crazy!!
Well Aaron, i'm going to go on, imagining my days and what they'd be like with you in them, hoping that one day you will be in them once again.
Mum/ just needed to write you a few lines Aaron......it's six weeks almost to the minute that my heart told me you were gone. I got confirmation about 30 minutes later, but I already knew, almost like you were telling me. It's Guy Fawkes tonight, Grace and I went outside to light some boomers, you'd have loved them....I could almost hear you giggling. We wrote your name with sparklers...we probably woke the neighbours and we certainly disturbed the peacocks, and they sure let us know!! We had a laugh for the first time, it felt good and Grace thought I was funny because I'm so scared of fireworks Here's some fireworks for you
((The dog almost shat himself, that was a bit sad...but you'd have found it funny knowing you *from lil sis*)) Sleep well son, we love you, and we are trying to be brave
Tributes and Condolences
Thought i might follow on from Mum and write to you as well
Here's some fireworks for you
*from lil sis*))
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